So onto todays "patient" MacKenzie or Kenzie for short as she told me. She seemed pretty nice. Her life seemed oddly conflicting as you will find out. Life for those that don't follow the so called "norm" seems to be rather interesting, to me anyway. Hopefully you find this post semi interesting, and hopefully some people can come to change and respect other peoples lives a little more. Other people aren't here to do as you say, you don't matter to other people as much as they don't matter to you, so, butt out of other peoples choices and know your role.
Me:Hey, how's your day going?
Kenzie: who's this lol :)
Me: just a random guy texting random peeps, where in the world are you?
Kenzie: lol nice, how'd you get my number lol, I'm in university in Minnesota, where are you, what's your name? :)
Me: My name is Kurt (I always lie lol)from canada, how's your day been?
Kenzie:My name is MacKenzie, Kenzie for short, where in canada are you from? how old are you?
Me: Vancouver, 23 (another lie lol)
Kenzie: nice :) how was your weekend?
Me: it was good, how was yours?
Kenzie:my weekend was good, just chilled with friends and drank a lil and went on some adventures :), what'd you do?
Me: packed, moving to the northwest territories
Kenzie: why did you decide to move there?
Me: moving for family? what are you doing with your life?
Kenzie: I'm 19 first year of University and don't really know what i am doing with my life lol
Me:what's the weirdest thing you have ever done?
Kenzie: Um, don't know...how bout you?
Me: Moving to the northpole is the weirdest thing I've done lol, so you've never done something people might look down on you for?
Kenzie: um, i drink, thats about it...how bout you mister :)
Me: i'm super boring, i never do anything...just texting random peoples haha
Kenzie: lol haha yeah sounds kinda boring, but i never would have met you hadn't you done it lol, but for me, I'm gay, so some people would look down on me for it, but thats not something I do lol, but fuck them!
Me: How long have you been "out" if you don't mind me asking?
Kenzie: well i came out to my dad&bro at 14,waited till uni to come out to my mum, and came out to my friends when i was around 16. then came out to my uni friends a few months after knowing them. so i take it you're cool with it then :)
Me: oh yeah, don't understand why anyone would have a problem with the idea
Kenzie: lol i love canadians :) Do you have any tats or piercings?
At this point I sent her a pic of the tattoo on my left arm, just a tribal thing, no meaning to me but thought it was cool when i got it at 21 yrs old. She told me that she had no tats, but her and her friend were planning on getting one this summer. Then she sent me a pic of herself.
Me: nice, if you don't mind me saying, you're built pretty nice =)
Kenzie: i don't mind at all, thank you! that actually made me smile, can I see one of you.
To which i sent her this hilarious pic of corey,
a guy i work with, and said it was me...she never clued in as far as i know that he's white, and my tattooed arm was brown lol.So after all the picture hub bub was over I decided to ask her a question or two about being a lesbian. Starting off with this one.Me: so how do you decide who's the masculine and who's the feminine?
Kenzie: wow, thats a bit stereotypical,i dunno, it's not really something that is decided, it just happens that way.
Me:Is it hard for gay people where you are?
Kenzie: It's hard to meet other gay people, and uni sucks in that aspect because i compromised with my parents and went to a private religious uni for the first year so that i could go where ever i want for the next three years
Me: Hows that working out for you, religious school for the gays lol
Kenzie: it sucks!, but the friends i have made are great
Me: so even though its a religious school, you still have a fair amount of progressive thinkers amongst the student body?
Me:oh yeah well its a very slim select few that are progressive thinkers here lol, like my friends aren't homophobic , but they aren't all gung ho about it either.
It was really interesting hearing about her homosexuality, even though it didn't seem like she had much experience of being actively homosexual if you catch my drift, you know what i'm saying lol. She seemed like a nice girl, and wish I had texted more with her, but the pay as you go phone i use to do these texts ran out of minutes and I wasn't in possession of the cash monies it would take to rekindle the conversation. But, it was a learning moment, if you are going to run a blog based on text comments, make sure your phone always able to send and receive texts lol.
...Until next time, here's hoping someday when you get a text asking "hows your day going"...I hope it will have been a good one.
Also, if you know anyone that would be interesting for me to converse with and don't mind sending me the cell number (preferably in the US or Canada) but if they are real hot (and you prove it via pics) I may call out of those two countries. But if you could try and keep the integrity of the blog in mind and make sure the person is neither you, or someone you know that will know what is going on. thanks
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